When you’re having a full blown stress attack, it’s hard to
figure out the cause. It’s usually easier to resort to
medications or herbal remedies just to get some immediate
relief. However, being hasty will lead to only temporary
results and the stress will return when the medication
wears off.
Being able to control your stress allows you to be in
charge of your life. You’ll be able to cope with your
problems and avoid the stressors in your daily life. Here
are some ways to handle stress in your own personal way.
First, know what stressors occur in your life and how they
affect you. Which events, scenarios or people tend to "push
your buttons?" Stress is your mind, emotions and body being
affected in a negative way and it usually follows that same
path. Most of the time, stress begins with thoughts, then
filters down to the emotions and if left uncontrolled
begins to impact your physical body.
Get away from everything in your quiet space to reflect on
what things cause you stress. Write it down, if you can.
Analyze each item one at a time to see if you can narrow
the cause of each stressor. Then you’ll be able to come up
with a way to try to defeat each one. Talking with someone
you trust is also a good way to vent all those bottled-up
emotions, enabling you to "vent."
Since you’ve figured out what’s causing the stress, now you
need to create some solutions. Resorting to medication is a
temporary fix, but we’re looking for a more permanent
solution to enable you to control your life. Don’t let your
problems control you, as stress usually rears its ugly head
when you feel out of control. You’ll feel stress almost
immediately in these circumstances.
Relax. Face your problems head on. You’ll figure it out.
You always do! Think of another time you’ve handled a
similar problem. You can use music therapy or mediation to
help you relax and clear your mind for a fresh start.
Aromatherapy with scents like jasmine and lavendar have
been proven to have a calming effect, enabling your mind to
clear. This is particularly effective if you plan to sort
through all your problems to find solutions for each.
Stress is usually precluded by a problem. Don’t let these
problems pile up. Procrastination only makes the problems,
and therefore the stress, worse. Deal with your problems
one at a time, feeling confident as you go that you are in
control. Loss of control is its own stressor.
Now you know the "secret." Identify the causes of your
stress and create your own ways to deal with them. You CAN
do it. You’re in control.